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Normal X-rays. Normal scans. Normal blood tests. And yet you're in pain. In a specific place, here or there, sometimes all over... And it can last for months, even years. You've seen specialists, done all the tests, and every time you get the same answer: we can't find anything. If that's ever been your experience, let me be so clear: "We can't find anything" doesn't mean it's imaginary. It doesn't mean you're exaggerating. And it definitely doesn't mean nothing can be done. Our understanding of pain has changed a lot over the last few decades. Pain isn't simply a signal that something is physically damaged. It's an interpretation made by the brain, a decision even. And when the brain has been under prolonged stress, it can become hypersensitive, interpreting sensations as dangerous that wouldn't normally register as painful at all. So there's no visible damage, but the pain is very real. If you've been reading me for a while, you know that chronic stress isn't something that only happens in your brain. It sets off a chain of physical responses that most of us don't connect to stress at all: inflammation, high muscle tension and a lower pain threshold. Often, the person in pain doesn't feel particularly stressed. If you remember our poor frog from two weeks ago, we saw how stress can become background noise, and how it simply stops being noticeable. The body, though, keeps the score. Now, I know how frustrating it is to hear "we can't find anything". I've been there, I even wished my wrist were broken so that the doctors could not deny my pain, and something could be done. But there is a silver lining to it: if the problem is in the nervous system rather than the tissues, that means nothing is structurally broken. And the nervous system can be worked with. Many doctors don't know how to fix something that doesn't show up in scans, but this is where therapeutic yoga shines. The approach I use is the opposite of pushing through pain. It's about creating a felt sense of safety in the body: slow breathing, gentle conscious movement, intentional muscle release. A way to tell the brain "it's okay, you are safe, you don't need to keep sending threat signals." If you want to start on this path, here's a small thing you can try tonight: lie down for 5 minutes, place one hand on your belly, and take a few slow, easy breaths. Then do a slow scan of your body. Where are you holding tension right now? Jaw, shoulders, belly, hips? Don't try to fix anything. Just notice. It doesn't seem like much, but it's the first step. Telling your body: I'm listening. And for an actual therapeutic protocol, you know where to find me :) Clem |
I'm a bilingual yoga teacher who helps people who sit a lot gain mobility, move without pain and reduce their stress.
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